“Bla Bla Bla”
Not that anyone’s surprised, but there’s another major e-mail faux pas making the rounds. (Hm. I originally typed “e-mal” by mistake - perhaps a better term for this.) Again, not that anyone’s surprised, but this one comes from a recent Boston-area law school grad tanking her job interview. Here’s the full exchange (via 880012:
—–Original Message—–
From: David —-
Sent: Friday, February 10, 2006 9:54 AM
To: Stacey —–
Subject: FW: Thank youRead from the bottom to the top.there was an intervening exchange of voice mails as well.as you can imagine, they were as unprofessional as her e-mails.
—–Original Message—–
From: William A. Korman
Sent: Friday, February 10, 2006 9:55 AM
To: ‘David —-’
Subject: RE: Thank youYou can e-mail this to whomever you want.
—–Original Message—–
From: David —–
Sent: Friday, February 10, 2006 9:47 AM
To: ‘William A. Korman’
Subject: RE: Thank youOH MY GOD!
Where to begin?
First of all, how unprofessional.and secondly, it is “reap what you ’sow,’” now “sew”.if she is going to use a clich?, couldn’t she at least spell it right? And WTF is with her “blab la bla”? Does she not read your e-mail about it being a small community?! So, finally, can I forward this along to some folks? I am sure they would love to see how the up-and-coming lawyers are comporting themselves! (Clearly she did not go to BU!!!) J
—–Original Message—–
From: William A. Korman
Sent: Friday, February 10, 2006 7:59 AM
To: ‘David —-’
Subject: FW: Thank youDid I already forward this to you?
—–Original Message—–
From: Dianna Abdala
Sent: Monday, February 06, 2006 4:29 PM
To: William A. Korman
Subject: Re: Thank youbla bla bla
—– Original Message —–
From: William A. Korman
To: ‘Dianna Abdala’
Sent: Monday, February 06, 2006 4:18 PM
Subject: RE: Thank youThank you for the refresher course on contracts. This is not a bar exam question. You need to realize that this is a very small legal community, especially the criminal defense bar. Do you really want to start pissing off more experienced lawyers at this early stage of your career?
—–Original Message—–
From: Dianna Abdala
Sent: Monday, February 06, 2006 4:01 PM
To: William A. Korman
Subject: Re: Thank youA real lawyer would have put the contract into writing and not exercised any such reliance until he did so.
Again, thank you.
—– Original Message —–
From: William A. Korman
To: ‘Dianna Abdala’
Sent: Monday, February 06, 2006 12:15 PM
Subject: RE: Thank youDianna -
Given that you had two interviews, were offered and accepted the job (indeed, you had a definite start date), I am surprised that you chose an e-mail and a 9:30 PM voicemail message to convey this information to me. It smacks of immaturity and is quite unprofessional. Indeed, I did rely upon your acceptance by ordering stationary and business cards with your name, reformatting a computer and setting up both internal and external e-mails for you here at the office. While I do not quarrel with your reasoning, I am extremely disappointed in the way this played out. I sincerely wish you the best of luck in your future endeavors.
- Will Korman—–Original Message—–
From: Dianna Abdala
Sent: Friday, February 03, 2006 9:23 PM
To: wak
Subject: Thank youDear Attorney Korman,
At this time, I am writing to inform you that I will not be accepting your offer.
After careful consideration, I have come to the conclusion that the pay you are offering would neither fulfill me nor support the lifestyle I am living in light of the work I would be doing for you. I have decided instead to work for myself, and reap 100% of the benefits that I sew.Thank you for the interviews.
Dianna L. Abdala, Esq.
Of course, the legal community and the blogosphere have risen up to give Abdala a well-deserved mocking. But to my surprise, not many seem to think attorney Korman did anything wrong.
I do.
Korman responded to Abdala’s initial snooty e-mail by lecturing her on professionalism, saying about her message: It smacks of immaturity and is quite unprofessional.
That may be true, but I also think it’s unprofessional for one attorney to lecture another, who is not his employee and not his child, about professionalism.
Both sides then threw fuel on the fire. Abdala lectured him on what a real attorney
would and wouldn’t do - thereby cementing Korman’s first assessment of her - and he responded by patronizing her. Do you really want to start pissing off more experienced lawyers at this early stage of your career?
he asked. Well, good for you, Korman. Hasn’t all that experience as a trial attorney taught him anything about human nature? Apparently not, since he actually had agreed to have this woman join his firm - business cards, letterhead, and all. I think a professional with Korman’s “experience” should have let the matter drop instead of plugging onward. Korman chose a different course, and drew Abdala’s now-famous retort: “Bla bla bla.”
So then Korman did something I think really crossed the line on his part - he sent the e-mail to his friend “David” and told him:
You can e-mail this to whomever you want.
Abdala, from what we can tell, is young, foolish, and spoiled. Korman is an experienced and apparently respected attorney who should have known better than to authorize his friend to share the exchange with, in effect, the whole world. In some states, Abdala might have grounds to sue Korman for invasion of privacy. Even if she might not win, it’s a headache that no one wants to endure.
And her complaint to the Bar might have some legal merit as well. I can’t speak for Massachusetts, but in some states Korman’s conduct could violate prohibitions against acts reflecting poorly on the profession. (It is much more clear that Abdala’s conduct would do so.) Why he would allow this e-mail exchange to be forwarded, I can’t know for sure, but it certainly seems to be driven by a desire to embarrass Abdala, or to make good on his promise that she would “piss off” the “small community” of criminal lawyers in Boston.
Abdala may eventually grow out of her inadequacies. For Korman, he’ll just have to live with the knowledge that he’s probably ruined someone’s career when he should have exercised restraint.
UPDATE: More remarks at the probably NSFW site Bitch | Lab



Dianna Abdala has a case: no contract for employment. If the potential employer made her a job offer, for example, if she accepted, relocated incurred expenses related to moving, no case, no legal liability on the part of the employer or employee until an employment contract is signed. Sorry Dianna is right about the contract, tacky and not so nice but she is legally right about the contract issue. Research the case law folks.